PEOPLE WHO CARE

"NEVER TAKE A PERSON FOR GRANTED.Hold EVERY PERSON CLOSE TO YOUR HEART CAUSE YOU MIGHT WAKE UP ONE DAY & REALIZE THAT YOU'VE LOST A DIAMOND WHILE YOU WERE TOO BUSY COLLECTING STONES."

Something happened yesterday which made me very upset and made me think more in to past....I kept of thinking about it for full night and till now.....That feeling doesn't seem to be going away..... But a person who cares for you is there for you always ...that could be a friend, your husband or one of your relative…. Tough times reveal who are there standing really with you….. Who truly cares…...

In past few days I learnt few lessons about life that I would like to share….

In last two years I was in my own world and I never realized the people I was walking with were losing touch… I was so indulged with myself and my feelings for a particular thing that I ignored everything else…. Just everything else… my close friends who really cared for me… I was away from my closest friends for just one particular thing… And I never felt that I left many people behind who were really concerned….
Today I am on a stage where I don’t have that one thing which left me two years ago and am realizing it today that standing all alone…. For a moment I felt I lost everything in life but then I turned back and I realized those people who cared standing at their places with their arms wide open and waiting to hear from me……. and that was enough to made me realize what i was doing.... it was another life for me....
In last few days I learnt that your care and love is precious don’t just waste it someone who do not just care for you… you might be losing those who really care about you…
Now I have learnt this lesson though I might take some time to come out the previous things but yes life has taught me a lesson I’ll remember and I really Thank my all friends for being there for me…

I am feeling sorry that weakened the friendship bond but I can make sure that it won’t happen again… Life is precious and there are many people for whom your smile matters for those your tears are precious so just care about them and celebrate life…

People come and people go.... some will hurt you, some walk with you…. But life moves on….
And it is a fact!!

isn't it??

love,
Snehal

Is this a perfect world??

In imperfection, is perfection."

This is the quote that comes to mind when contemplating whether or not this world is "perfect". "Perfection" as a term is a bit questionable, even unattainable.

What really can be described as "perfect" exactly anyway, that is, as unanimously perfect? Perfection, in fact, seems more like a notion, a concept, an idea, or a theory than an actual state of being in reality. Furthermore, time is always moving, so even when, if ever, attained, a state of perfection in reality is rarely permanent. Perfection, if even possible, is most likely objective. So only in that way is "perfection" possible, depending on your definition, of course. For myself, as is demonstrated in the quote, perfection is achieved when you find the purpose for everything- even, or i should say especially, in all of life's little inconveniences. Once you find their reason, the chance of you learning something from them is greatly heightened. so thats what its about: turning "imperfection" into something useful, because when you do, suddenly they aren't "imperfections" anymore, but opportunities. And sometimes learning something worthwhile from something that seemed nothing but an inconvenience is more rewarding than had it been a "perfect" situation to start with.

So if perfection is really about appreciating imperfection, because really perfection is not possible if you cannot do that, the question has changed from what is perfection to what is imperfection? rest assured, imperfection is everywhere. imperfection is in human beings, in daily situations, in weather, "imperfection" can be find everywhere, even down to the earth's geography.

if you think about it, is a state of "perfection" achievable at all? After all, little quirks, little mistakes, little differences is what makes life so interesting.

Isn't it??

Love

snehal

Traffic Jam

It was Tuesday evening and I left office bit early thinking I could go home early and relax with a cup of coffee and a Episode on Friends on TV3. And out of nowhere I found myself stuck in traffic. It was not a typical “rush hour” time of day and normally traffic does not get backed up like this. I figured there must be an accident or some type of serious incident up ahead just out of sight. I was all alone in my car slowly creeping my way forward, bumper to bumper, continually looking for the flashing lights of ambulances and police cars; the telltale signs of a roadway incident. Then, all of a sudden, traffic began to move normally again. There is no sign of an accident, incident, or any other cause of the slowdown in traffic. What happened? By now I was in this traffic for more that an hour and half, normally it takes only 35 to 40 minutes for me to come home... What must have happened??

Anyways, after 2 hrs and 30 minutes, I finally reached home and had nice cup of coffee with any FRIENDS. and still wondering what must have happened????

Celebrating Lent

"What are you giving up for Lent?"

That's the question on everyone's lips right now. Of course, as I write this, Mardi Gras is in full effect in cities all over the world, as people indulge one last time before their Lenten sacrifices and fasts. But the question is still there: "What are you giving up for Lent?"

I am hindu and I have thought so much about lent before this year. It just seems this year everyone is talking about it or am I thinking too much?? Anyways, Hindu's never keep lent for anything or do we?? anyways i keep wondering what will I give up if i would have to keep lent??

The more I thought about it, the more I realized that the idea of self-sacrifice, while noble and worthwhile, was beginning to overshadow what Lent was all about. It seems that Christians are very good at creating ceremonies that end up overshadowing the event commemorated. The purpose of Lent is to prepare the observant for Holy Week. It has always been designed to be a time of contemplation, worship, and prayer leading up to the celebration of Christ's resurrection; fasting and "self-sacrifice" was never a means unto itself, but a part of the prayer and worship that went into the season. The denial was intended to remind you to pray — rather than do whatever you're giving up, you pray, or meditate.

But I'm not Catholic, so the question remains — what to give up?

A friend of mine is giving up Chocolates for Lent. I like my share of chocolate however i am not mad for them; I can easily go days sometimes even weeks before I eat one so It would be easy, but that defeats the purpose.

Finally I decided that I would give up something easily as precious as anything I've mentioned: time. Lent is meant to prepare you spiritually for the celebration of the Resurrection, so I am taking that seriously. So for next 40 days I am going to give up reading gossip magzines. No to HELLO, NEW GIRL OR HOUSE KEEPING!!

will see how it goes!!

love,

snehal

Pallavi.. Straight from the heart!!: Men from Mars, Women from Venus….. Really???

Pallavi.. Straight from the heart!!: Men from Mars, Women from Venus….. Really???

I agree with you Pallavi, Life would have been boaring if men were not men and we women would have had nothing to complain about them.... What i only would request you change in them if you do become a goddess is that give them some sense of clealiness. My husband makes mess of things and then says...Ghar he doghanch asat....ekane pasarle tar dusryane savrayach asat.....

Snehal